I have a question to ponder for those of the multiple-partner mindset.
The short form is this:
What will it be with you as a part of it?
Continue reading ““Exactly what kind of team is this, anyway?””Where opinions are ferocious and weird
I have a question to ponder for those of the multiple-partner mindset.
The short form is this:
What will it be with you as a part of it?
Continue reading ““Exactly what kind of team is this, anyway?””The local nudist colony is going nuts trying to buy some velociraptor-proof fencing. I’m not sure if I should sell them ordinary cyclone fencing because I’m not sure it’ll stop a raptor attack.
Continue reading “Risky business, raptors…”In relationships, I often hear a lot about rules. In particular, I’m talking about multiple adult relationships, but feel free to extract what makes sense for you out of this if this doesn’t apply to you. My own opinion is that where an observation can be applied broadly, it seems more likely, but I admit I’m prejudiced against provincialism.
Continue reading “The Functional Aspect of Rules”The notion that human beings must be of one mind is ridiculous.
We are meaty chaotic systems. The fact that we even make decisions indicates that on several levels we compare and contrast different possible outcomes.
Continue reading “Second Guessing — it’s like punching yourself in the face.”I’m going to tell you about a miracle.
An ordinary person flips an ordinary coin a hundred times in a row and the coin lands on heads each time.
No trick person, no trick coin, no trick situation.
Continue reading “When a Miracle isn’t Actually a Miracle”Here’s a quick and easy way to look at your relationships: Check your System.
Always have a sense of where the energy’s going in a relationship.
That’s the one-sentence takeaway.
Continue reading “Check Your System Levels!”